Years and time can really change a person. I totally agree that. I
used to be a shy and quiet girl; who think that I am utterly useless and
stubborn. But time teaches me how to turn out to become a better person. I used
to have a gang of course mates, but along time, friendship eventually faded
especially they are occupied with their jobs and internships. Once they stepped
out from Uni, another social platform you are trying to get in, you are out
from their zone. You could find another brunch of friends, ya, but it is gonna
be a little hard time to adapt into new circle.
Currently, I am in my forth year. In order to blend in the Uni
lifestyle without my fellow friends, I was trying to join in some clubs and
student council, which I wasn't even familiar with. In turn, I have become a
Vice President for In-Line Skate Club and a Treasurer for Volunteer Program (a
student council) after few interviews and the votes from the election. I was
quite shocked that there were many people actually know me beforehand I know
them. Thus, not to disappoint them, I promised to improve the club and student
council better in the future.
Now, I got friends. Not only local friends, but overseas friends.
I got friends with different backgrounds, schools, courses. They aren't that
scary as I thought. They are friendly people outside. Many people camouflage
themselves, in reality, they are super friendly inside, but they cover up their
personality outside so hard. I learn one thing from here. Be YOLO! Don't care
what people on you, don't care their point of view. Don't care their judgment.
You are you. You are your whole. There is needless to be in someone’s
shoes.
I have ever thought that my flaws, my imperfections, may shut my
circle. However, I was wrong. Friends were there for you, because they were
attracted by your unique personalities, not “perfections”. No one is perfect in
real life, if there is out there, he or she most probably freak. Or he or she
is too fake lying in her personalities.
Again, I would like to remind everyone! Life is not too long or
too short. Be yourself! We aren’t live for them, but ourselves. Without
regrets, your life is colored. J
